A neighbor had my son break into my home when I was passed out in her house. What can I do to her legaly?

This all could have been prevented if you had her arrested for stealing the narcotics but maybe they were not legal. I would just keep my distance from her.. She is causing you trouble and stressing you out. She sounds mentally unstable so you need to be very careful . If you have to be anywhere near her you should have a witness so she can't make up stories and get you arrested. Sounds drastic but you might have to move. She could be dangerous. I can't believe they would say you can't use your own patio. That's crazy. You are smart enough to know she must of lied to get that order against you. She is a liar and goodness knows what she will do next. That was a mistake to text her but I'm sure you won't do it again. Try to calm down and if there are family members or friends you can talk to, turn to them for support. The main thing is to try to protect yourself against false reports and watch out for your son. If you have friends or family you could visit maybe be away from the house til things calm down. I hope you feel better and she leaves you alone. This is a terrible situation . Good luck.. Maybe she'll go away.